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7 Benefits of Using Video Communication to Keep Close to Kids After New Jersey Divorce

A New Jersey divorce truly is a life-altering experience. This particularly is the case when children are involved. The process can be emotionally draining and otherwise challenging for divorcing parents and children alike. It is vital for parents to maintain a healthy relationship with your children post-divorce. One of the best ways to achieve this is through video communication. There are seven key benefits associated with video communication following a New Jersey divorce.

The seven key benefits of using video communication to keep close to kids after divorce are:

  • Staying connected
  • Better communication
  • Sharing experiences
  • Build strong relationships
  • Flexible scheduling
  • Cost effective
  • Peace of mind

We discuss each of these important benefits in turn.

Stay Connected

Using video communication, parents can stay connected with children when kids are at the other parent’s home. Video communication provides a sense of closeness and comfort, which is essential for parents and children alike. A keyway in which parents and children can maintain meaningful relationships after divorce is through regular connections between mothers, fathers, and kids.

Better Communication

Video communication allows for better interpersonal connection than just a phone call. A parent can see a child’s facial expressions and body language, which can help for better understanding and more meaningful communication. When talking on the telephone and when texting, confusion over what is being conveyed can happen with some degree of regularity.

Share Experiences

Using video communication allows parents and children to share experiences as if everyone is in the same room. For example, a parent can read a bedtime story to them or help them with their homework. Keep in mind that many children are used to communicating through video apps. Therefore, they are not at all likely to have reservations about communicating with their parents through video conferencing.

Build Stronger Relationships

Video communication can help build stronger relationships between parents and children following a New Jersey divorce. Parents can have one-on-one conversations on a quite direct level. This helps to build trust and create a stronger bond between parents and children. As mentioned previously, regular communication is at the heart of building and maintaining strong relationships between parents and children in the aftermath of a New Jersey marriage dissolution proceeding.

Flexible Scheduling

Video communication allows for flexible scheduling. Video conferencing time can be arranged that works for both parents and children schedules. As children grow older, this type of flexibility is particularly important. This becomes the case because children start to have more activities and social connections of their own as they grow older.


Using video communication is cost-effective compared to traveling to spend time with children in person. You can save money on transportation, lodging, and other expenses. This cost-effectiveness is especially important for parents who live far away from their children or those who have limited financial resources.

Peace of Mind

Lastly, using video communication can give parents peace of mind knowing that they can see and talk to children regularly following a divorce. This can even come in the form of a quick video connection check-in between parents and children. This can help reduce stress and anxiety associated with not seeing them regularly.

In addition to what we have discussed, there are seven tactics to consider when it comes to utilizing video communication following a New Jersey divorce. These are:

  • Create a routine
  • Be present
  • Make it fun
  • Use different platforms
  • Use different platforms
  • Be patient
  • Respect boundaries
  • Stay positive

Adopting these tactics can go far towards enhancing the benefits of video conferencing between parents and children in the post-divorce world. Parents are wise to mutually employ video conferencing between parents and children following the end of the marriage.

In conclusion, video communication is an excellent way to stay close to your children after divorce. By following these tips, you can make the most out of your video calls and build a stronger relationship with your children. Remember to create a routine, be present, make it fun, use different platforms, be patient, respect boundaries, and stay positive. With time and effort, video communication can help you and your children navigate the challenges of divorce and maintain a healthy relationship. Call 201 845 7400 for a free consultation.





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